You know, one day you realize that some things are just irrelevant. Like, whether it matters if someone actually gives a damn about what you choose to do. Most don’t. Some do. And, the “some” are either people who actually care, or the people who care because it’s something to “share” information about. Yea, I know you.

Well, let me tell you, tonight is bourbon night. Yep. And, it is good. It is such a glorious moment to be true to yourself. It is amazing to just be you. Like, it is the RIGHT thing to say NO, or make a decision, that at the time, seems selfish, but it is absolutely THE RIGHT CHOICE. Yes. and yet saying NO, because you get to. Because it is right. Because, oh, what the f’ing hell. Who cares?!!! We, as women, are often constipated in our ability to make bold choices for…